It’s Not Just White People – #BlackLivesMatter

#BlackLivesMatter Photo by frankie cordoba on Unsplash
#BlackLivesMatter Photo by frankie cordoba on Unsplash

One of the biggest misconceptions is that only Caucasian people are racist towards black people, and other people of colour avoid discriminating against black people. Unfortunately, that is far from the truth.

As a brown man of Indian descendant, I have experienced my share of racism. But nothing to the extremism of black people. Brown people often avoid being persecuted as we are perceived in a certain manner. Society often considers us as individuals in prominent positions such as doctors, engineers, and accountants, or gas station attendants, and call center workers. The non-threatening portrayal of brown people in the media as the “thank you, come again” folks, save us from many violent encounters.

Growing up in an Indian family, I have seen racism towards dark-skinned people, especially the African descendants. A myth in the culture that dark-skinned African descendants are violent, aggressive, and not educated. I have met individuals among family, extended family, and friends that have a negative attitude towards the black community. Here are some questions/statements I have encountered from South Asian folks in my life and during my travel in India:

1, “Are all black people murderers, rapists, thieves, and violent in nature?” A question by someone regarded as a highly educated individual in India.

2, “Since you are probably not going to marry within our culture, at least don’t marry a black person.” A remark made by extended family towards my sister and I, when discussing marriage.

3, “It’s probably a black person.” An automatic conclusion about a robbery that occurred at a family friend’s house in Canada. She did not see the thief.

4, “I don’t want my daughter to take up scholarship from the USA since there are many ‘negros’ there…” a statement from an aunty when her daughter received a sports scholarship in the US.

I can’t completely blame these folks, as they were raised in a hateful upbringing that blamed all negative incidents on black and dark-skinned people; they weren’t privileged like me. The privilege of growing up in a diverse country like Canada. The privilege of having met, interacted, and acquainted with people of different races and cultures. The privilege of having black friends, the best friends, and individuals considered to be family. This privilege allowed me to understand black people and their struggles. I can only sympathize with them as my lighter skin tone and Indian features protected me from some negative biases, stereotypes, and violent encounters.

Brown privilege is often unchecked. Not that we are safe from racism or racist attacks, but we avoid being brutalized by society on a daily basis. We often avoid being targeted and assaulted by police. We often avoid being spied on when we shop, walk, or do any chores. Mind you the keyword here is “often,” as I am comparing those discriminations to black people, and by no means am I trying to say there aren’t any racial tensions towards brown people.

Brown people are not the only race that is racist towards black people. Including black people, other people of colour such as Latinos and Asians discriminate against them. I have witnessed, and read articles about, cultural hatred towards the black community. The most recent examples consist of a Latino gang joining police in attacking peaceful black protesters, and the discrimination of black people in China during the Covid-19 pandemic.

The focus of this article is on the brown community as I am a product of this ethnicity and since birth, have witnessed negative sentiments towards the black community. From individual interactions to Indian media, the negative portrayal of dark-skinned Africans is common.

Other races, including white people, have experienced some kind of racism. However, the one group that suffers under all race are the black people. That is why it is important to understand the Black Lives Matter movement instead of suppressing it with “All Lives Matter” narrative. Until black lives get the humane treatment, respect, equality, and justice, we can never have “All Lives Matter” justification.

Please visit blacklivesmatter.com/ to learn more about the movement and see what you can do to support and help the black community.

***For the sake of this topic, I am referring to South Asian brown people, particularly Indians. The discrimination is strictly regarding race and not in any way referring to religious discrimination. This article also doesn’t take into account clothing and facial features that automatically discriminates various groups of individuals***

#BlackLivesMatter Photo by Max Bender on Unsplash



Why Not Now? There Is No Right Time To Travel!

Nothing Better Than A Quick Splash – Switzerland

It’s easier than you think. Okay, maybe not that easy, but it really isn’t that hard. Instead of me going back and forth, contradicting myself, let me go ahead and explain why it is not that difficult to travel and why you should do it now!

First, let’s think about the most common excuses or rather, excuse; responsibility.  “I have family, pets, debt, school, career etc.” I can assure you all these responsibilities are also part of every single traveler. For me, it’s the student loans that are putting a curve on my travel budget. I resigned from my perfectly amazing job to pursue travel (at least for a little bit). Does that mean I have put an ax on my career? I sure hope not. As a digital advertiser, the freelancing world is pretty kind to me. I have yet to launch my official freelancing career, however, I am spending this time learning. Learning about different cultures, how different countries advertise and how I can be beneficial to them. Some basic marketing research before I fully commit to freelancing. I am also in the process of writing a novel as well as relaunching my blog. So if any of you guys are looking for a digital advertiser or a marketing consultant, look no further, this handsome digital nomad will be at your service ;).

Sunrise – Sahara Desert – Merzouga, Morocco

Okay, I went off topic. But what I am trying to say is that there is always an opportunity for you to travel and still earn some money (or save). Freelancing is one of them. Look into working holiday programs. Working holiday visas are designed for individuals under 30 years old to visit a certain country for a small duration of time, allowing them to work in that particular country. Many countries offer citizens of certain nations a one-year visa, where you can move to a different country and work while doing some traveling. Depending on where you are from, the cost can be as low as free or as high as about $400. Still, I think it is worth it to get out there and experience something new. You may not be making your career earnings nor will you get a career job, but it still gives you an international experience while being able to travel and meet amazing people without denting your savings. Another option is to use online tools such as workaway to find volunteering opportunities within the countries you want to visit. Most of the workaway volunteering programs provide you with at least accommodation and some provide food as well. A great opportunity to travel, learn, meet people and positively contribute to a country without using up your savings.

Crew Love – Europe Road Trip 2018 – Arona, Italy

I understand that individuals with commitments such as kids, mortgages, car payments and others, it is a lot more difficult to travel. For those individuals, the only thing I can say is… DON’T HAVE KIDS! Jokes aside, it is still possible to travel. You may not be able to be travel for a long time (or maybe you could, a lot of travel families out there for inspirations) but you can still strive to make small trips around the world or within your own province/state and country. As for mortgages and car payments, start investing in passive incomes (Airbnb can be one) to support while you travel or invest some time in freelancing, or consider selling your house and car (more travel money) and/or move to a cheaper unit. As for pets, you can easily find pet-sitters who would happily watch your cuddle buddies for a couple of weeks or get that little doggy a passport and let it join you on your adventures.

All Smiles Here – Prague, Czech Republic

When it’s all said and done, it is really your mindset of willing to give up certain luxuries. By all means treat yourself every now and then (at home and during travel), but giving up as little as your daily latte can stretch your budget. When you truly start living for the experiences, I promise it will be very fulfilling. You will start forgetting about a lot of your materialistic desires. The people you meet, the knowledge you acquire and the beautiful landscapes you see are all worth it. As for why now? It is just simple as there is no perfect time. There is also no set age for traveling, whenever you are ready, just do it! Don’t listen to the naysayers and ‘just’ the rational thinkers. Listening to your heart can go a long way! Even if you don’t do the long backpackers journey, make it a goal to visit one new country or a new city within your country every year; start small if you have to, but definitely go somewhere.

Cheers and hope to see you soon!

Devil’s Tear Sunset – Bali, Indonesia