It’s Not Just White People – #BlackLivesMatter

#BlackLivesMatter Photo by frankie cordoba on Unsplash
#BlackLivesMatter Photo by frankie cordoba on Unsplash

One of the biggest misconceptions is that only Caucasian people are racist towards black people, and other people of colour avoid discriminating against black people. Unfortunately, that is far from the truth.

As a brown man of Indian descendant, I have experienced my share of racism. But nothing to the extremism of black people. Brown people often avoid being persecuted as we are perceived in a certain manner. Society often considers us as individuals in prominent positions such as doctors, engineers, and accountants, or gas station attendants, and call center workers. The non-threatening portrayal of brown people in the media as the “thank you, come again” folks, save us from many violent encounters.

Growing up in an Indian family, I have seen racism towards dark-skinned people, especially the African descendants. A myth in the culture that dark-skinned African descendants are violent, aggressive, and not educated. I have met individuals among family, extended family, and friends that have a negative attitude towards the black community. Here are some questions/statements I have encountered from South Asian folks in my life and during my travel in India:

1, “Are all black people murderers, rapists, thieves, and violent in nature?” A question by someone regarded as a highly educated individual in India.

2, “Since you are probably not going to marry within our culture, at least don’t marry a black person.” A remark made by extended family towards my sister and I, when discussing marriage.

3, “It’s probably a black person.” An automatic conclusion about a robbery that occurred at a family friend’s house in Canada. She did not see the thief.

4, “I don’t want my daughter to take up scholarship from the USA since there are many ‘negros’ there…” a statement from an aunty when her daughter received a sports scholarship in the US.

I can’t completely blame these folks, as they were raised in a hateful upbringing that blamed all negative incidents on black and dark-skinned people; they weren’t privileged like me. The privilege of growing up in a diverse country like Canada. The privilege of having met, interacted, and acquainted with people of different races and cultures. The privilege of having black friends, the best friends, and individuals considered to be family. This privilege allowed me to understand black people and their struggles. I can only sympathize with them as my lighter skin tone and Indian features protected me from some negative biases, stereotypes, and violent encounters.

Brown privilege is often unchecked. Not that we are safe from racism or racist attacks, but we avoid being brutalized by society on a daily basis. We often avoid being targeted and assaulted by police. We often avoid being spied on when we shop, walk, or do any chores. Mind you the keyword here is “often,” as I am comparing those discriminations to black people, and by no means am I trying to say there aren’t any racial tensions towards brown people.

Brown people are not the only race that is racist towards black people. Including black people, other people of colour such as Latinos and Asians discriminate against them. I have witnessed, and read articles about, cultural hatred towards the black community. The most recent examples consist of a Latino gang joining police in attacking peaceful black protesters, and the discrimination of black people in China during the Covid-19 pandemic.

The focus of this article is on the brown community as I am a product of this ethnicity and since birth, have witnessed negative sentiments towards the black community. From individual interactions to Indian media, the negative portrayal of dark-skinned Africans is common.

Other races, including white people, have experienced some kind of racism. However, the one group that suffers under all race are the black people. That is why it is important to understand the Black Lives Matter movement instead of suppressing it with “All Lives Matter” narrative. Until black lives get the humane treatment, respect, equality, and justice, we can never have “All Lives Matter” justification.

Please visit blacklivesmatter.com/ to learn more about the movement and see what you can do to support and help the black community.

***For the sake of this topic, I am referring to South Asian brown people, particularly Indians. The discrimination is strictly regarding race and not in any way referring to religious discrimination. This article also doesn’t take into account clothing and facial features that automatically discriminates various groups of individuals***

#BlackLivesMatter Photo by Max Bender on Unsplash



From Settled To A Nomad; A Unique Outlook Of A Backpacker

“You won’t last 6 months,” and “You’ll be back in a week.”

Two statements I constantly heard when deciding to embark on my solo trip to India for 6 months.

At 22 years old and a recent University graduate, hungry for a meaningful experience, the world was my oyster. I decided to explore not just any country but India, my motherland; I was intent on discovering my roots. As an Indo-Canadian born in UAE the faint memories I have of India consist of visiting extended family in the state of Kerala for 2 weeks every 5 years. Terrified of what could await me, I put on a brave face and boarded the flight to Mumbai. I was determined to thrive in a world that was foreign to me and silence the doubters.

Despite not speaking an ounce of Hindi, I connected with the locals through their food, culture, and humanity. In the past, I was often blinded by the negative aspects portrayed of India by the media. The narrative changed once I gave India a chance. Being hosted by various families, sharing their stories, food, and ‘mittai’, I started feeling a sense of kinship with the natives of the land. Immersing myself by traveling in crowded buses and trains, eating diverse street delicacies – Delhi Belly being part of the experience – I slowly began to integrate into the local lifestyle. Being the only person on both sides of my family to see India on a larger scale, it was a life-changing experience. I proudly survived the chaos of India.

Fast-forward two years, I’m 25 years old and living in Toronto working as a digital media strategist. I was thriving in the industry, experiencing significant financial and social fulfillment. However, I felt incomplete which pushed me into an existential crisis – quarter-life? Soul-searching? I wanted to get out and embark on a journey again. I came across an opportunity to volunteer with a pop-up hostel in Munich, Germany during Oktoberfest. A last-minute application turned into an unexpected opportunity when the coordinator for the hostel reached out to me. I resigned, bought some travel gear, and booked a one-way ticket heading to Munich – the rest was history.

Well, history to reminisce on when I am old and gray.

There is a charm to working with people from around the world. The different nationalities, cultures, languages, and personalities all tossed into a big punch bowl; a love for travel brought us together. This was my first time being part of an international community of this scale. I learned that language has no barriers, travel has no passport – okay it does – but in a general scheme of things, these individuals didn’t care about where I was from, rather who I am. This is where my love for traveling was fostered.

Initially, my trip was intended to last 4 months. My friends from the hostel challenged me to take a leap of faith and push beyond my comfort zone. As a result, I sold everything back home and hit the road for 18 months. Meeting people every day and being part of their story, it had more meaning than any materialistic satisfaction I have ever had. The endless adrenaline one receives from traveling, an experiential high, persuaded me to continue.

My journey truly humbled me to the extent that I was able to recognize a deeper sense of myself. I started saving every penny, traveling by any means, sleeping in conditions I never imagined, and picking up jobs with tasks I would normally be reluctant to do, all with a smile on my face. In addition, visiting different countries, meeting travelers & locals, and hearing unique stories made me appreciate the privilege of living in Canada.

I took a leap into the unknown, not knowing what awaited me; I came back a different person. A person who sincerely appreciates the smaller details, realizes that money is not everything, and at last, has a deeper understanding that true love and friendships know no border or language.

Dear Kobe…

Game Face via standard.co.uk; Getty Images

This was not how your story was supposed to end. This was not how you were supposed to go out. You were supposed to be immortal! I still can’t believe you are no longer with us. I am still waiting for someone to make a post saying that it was a joke. However, I must now accept the fact that the invincible Black Mamba was defeated by death when nothing else could stop him.

Kobe Bean Bryant was a symbol, a hero! Not because of the tremendous skills you demonstrated on the basketball court, but for the person you were! Not flawless by any means, but your pursuit of perfection and the sacrifices you made during that journey that made you a legend. You were known for being a killer on the court. It didn’t matter who you faced – from MJ to LeBron – nobody could intimidate you; always prepared for the competition. During the season and off-season, you put in work, day in and day out and that’s what made you special – never satisfied! Always hungry to learn more, to improve more, to become better each day; your dedication and passion for the sport of basketball were unreal. One of my favourite stories of you is when during a game against Michael Jordan, you asked MJ about his footwork for his infamous fadeaway. Even in a game, you wanted to learn, wanted to be better.

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I was never a fan of you, Kobe, or the Lakers. Hell, I hated you man! Every season, you destroyed my teams. Whether the Chicago Bulls or Toronto Raptors (Canada’s Team), you were relentless! But you were definitely one of my favourite players. An athlete I respected the most in basketball, nay, sports. Like many hoopers, I was inspired by your work ethic, your smooth game, your perfect imperfections, and imperfect perfections, and yes, the “Mamba Mentality!” Yes, that’s it, the Mamba Mentality that made you a force to be reckoned with and one of my favourite players. Your “Mamba” persona elevated the game and the mindset of winning. Everyone knew when the Mamba came out, it’s game over. I idolized you in such a manner that I started imitating your moves. From the fadeaways to jersey biting, but of course to compare my skills to yours, that’s disrespectful for the work I avoided, and the work you put in.

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Outside of basketball, you represented something else as well. A husband, father, friend, philanthropist and mentor, but for me, you were what success looked like; what the love for the journey meant. “Kobe clutch,” a term often used by my friends and I to represent closing out (winning) a specific goal or circumstances. Whether it was handing in the essay right on time at the deadline or getting a cute girl’s number – clutch, Kobe clutch!

Bryant Family via heavy.com; Getty Images

Your death shines a light on what kind of person you were and how many were inspired by the great Kobe. From current NBA players to athletes of different sports, we all mourned your loss. Even individuals who aren’t involved in sports mourned the loss of one of basketball’s beloved figures. All the interviews I have watched post your passing and everything else people from all around the world are doing to honour you, it goes to show what Kobe Bryant meant to the game of basketball and as an icon to the world. Your death also put life into perspective for us. That it really is short, and to enjoy it without hate and with all the love.

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Jimmy Kimmel worded it perfectly when he described your death; “The last person you would imagine something like this would happen… a hero in a way like Superman.” Unbelievable because everyone put you on a pedestal, a God, who was invincible to anything. This was the man who came back to play despite dislocated fingers and sprained ankles. This was the man who walked to the free-throw line to hit two free throws using his sheer will after have diagnosed with an Achilles rupture. He cannot die!

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I, like others, grew up watching you, a fixture on the TV! You were the reason our generation picked up a basketball, learned to love it and found the drive to play the beautiful sport. You were the reason we kept the flame of our passions and worked relentlessly to make our dreams a reality. Although You have left us, you will continue to live through every one of us. Every one of the young NBA players, and athletes in general, who have inherited your will – The Mamba Mentality. Every one that yells “Kobe” when they throw something in the bin. Everyone that puts in the extra effort, day in and day out, to chase their dreams.

Clutch Points’ words put me at peace with your death – “Today is the first time we realized… Kobe was a person, just like us. “

ClutchPoints; Facebook

Rest In Peace Kobe Bean Bryant AKA The Black Mamba !

*RIP to Gianna Bryant (Mambacita), John Altobelli, Keri Altobelli, Alyssa Altobelli, Sarah Chester, Payton Chester, and Ara Zobayan. We lost some special individuals who had a lot to give to this world as well.

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Turkey (Part 1) – Istanbul: Centre Of The Earth!

Turkish Flag In All Its Glory!

Turkey was a bucket list country for me. Having always wanting to visit, I jumped on the cheapest deal I could find to Istanbul. The $60 USD for the visa did hurt my Canadian bank account a little but I would say worth it as it gives you 3 months in the country. During my 10 day visit to the country, I visited Istanbul and Cappadocia, and both of them didn’t disappoint.

Istanbul – Gem of Europe and Asia!

Glimpse of the Ottoman Architecture

If you are visiting Turkey, you can’t miss this city. The infamous city of Turkey is a must see for everyone. I truly enjoyed being here as there is a lot to do, see and eat. A highly walkable city, you will always discover something new every day. I stayed in Istanbul for almost 2 weeks and I still don’t think I have done justice to the city.

Being a poor backpacker, I focused mostly on the food especially the sweets. Having born in the middle east (UAE), I have a special love for Arabic food, and Turkish food is similar to it; do not call the Turks, Arabs – I accidentally put them in the same sentence once and this Turkish girl wasn’t impressed – OOPS! Back to food, you go anywhere in Istanbul, you will come across many food vendors offering similar food in varying price tags. Some expensive, some cheap, but I assure you, you will find the best food that fits your budget.

What to do in Istanbul:

I honestly can’t summarize what to do in Istanbul, so I am just going to touch on the basics to-dos:

Galata Tower

Key Attractions

Since there are so many attractions in Turkey, here are the key touristy ones to visit:

  • Hagia Sophia – One of the most well-known attractions in Istanbul, it is worth the visit just to look at it from the outside. I, unfortunately, couldn’t go inside because I was impatient to wait in the line for the tickets, and the line after that to get in. The tickets are around 35 lira I believe. However, try to go on a weekday as the museum gets busy. I was there during the off-season and it was still busy.
Hagia Sophia
  • Blue Mosque – Equally as beautiful as the Hagia Sophia, the blue mosque is one of the most iconic structures in Istanbul. Free to enter, you just have to respect the prayer times; non-muslim tourists have a separate entrance. I can’t describe much about the inside as I skipped it, due to the same reason as Hagia Sophia – BIG LINE! But from what I have heard, it is magnificent.
Blue Mosque
  • Grand Bazaar – Shop your heart away in this colorful marketplace. Anything you want, you can get it here. From Turkish delights to spices and carpets and then some, you want it, you got it. It is quite touristy (duh) and the market place can be intense with literally no room to walk during busy days. Most items are fairly priced, but you can most likely get everything in the bazaar cheaper, outside of it.
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  • Taksim Square – If you thought New York never slept, just visit Taksim square! From sweets, food and all your other shopping needs, Taksim Square got you cover. Taksim Square is also one of the main neighborhood of Istanbul.
Republic Monument – Taksim Square
  • Istanbul (Asia) – If you didn’t know this already, Istanbul is a city with its feet in both Asia and Europe. Much of the tourist attractions are on the European side but the Asian side is still worth the visit. To be honest, I didn’t do much here, because I didn’t spend as much time on this side.
Bridge Connecting Istanbul Europe & Istanbul Asia – Photo by Burak Karaduman from Pexels

Lot more to do and see, but if I were to list them, this blog is going to turn into a novel haha. If you are in Istanbul, especially for a short visit, these are the must-dos in my opinion. You can also walk around the city and I can 100% guarantee you will run into some kind of beautiful architecture, museum or scenic views.

EAT!

All The Spices & Dried Fruits.

I would say this is (one) of the best thing you can do in Istanbul. With food starting at around 4 Lira ($1Cad), you can eat your heart out. Here is some food you should try:

  • Doner – The obvious choice and go-to cheap food for locals and tourist alike (4 – 20 lira)
  • Shawarma – I am still uncertain whether this is an Arabic food or Turkish food, but both ethnicities offer them, and they are equally good (and cheap) (10 – 25 lira)
  • Borek – Pastry with stuffed cheese, meat or spinach. You can get them anywhere along the Mediterranean and Balkan countries but so far I would say Turkey has the best Borek (8 – 10 lira)
  • Turkish Breakfast – A trip to Turkey is not complete without having a Turkish breakfast at least once. Bread, olives, Eggs, honey and cream spreading (Mhmm) and much more and some Cay (Chai) to wash them down (17 – 30 lira).
  • Kumpier – Baked potato with cheese, stuffed whatever you like (veggies, meat, etc) (20lira).
  • Turkish Delights – You can’t go to Turkey and not try some. Depending upon how much you get and from where it can be pricey especially the special ones (35 – 90 lira/ KG). Luckily a lot of the shops have free samples. I recommend walking around the Grand Bazaar and going into the different shops to “try before you buy;” my favorite thing to do 😀 #brokepeopleproblems.
  • Baklava – Again I have always thought these as Arabic sweets but the Turkish specializes in them as well. Baklava being my favorite sweets, you best believe I ate as much as possible (both samples and paid). In fact after doners, I spend the most money on Baklava. Again prices depends upon where you shop (70 – 100 lira).
  • Dondurma – The infamous sticky ice-cream, is your trip to Turkey even complete without trying one? I can range from 3 -15 Lira depending upon where you buy them. If you want to skip the fun antics by the ice-cream vendor, you can get it cheap. However, part of the charm is with the antics.
Turkish Delights!

*I have limited pictures of the food because I was never patient enough to take a picture of the food before I consumed it!

A Wholesome View Of Istanbul.

Needless to say, I have barely scratched the surface of this city and I can assure you, I will be back! Istanbul is one of those cities that kind of pulls you back.

One of my favorite country up to date and I have barely explored this beautiful country. Delicious food, beautiful cities and friendly people – What more do you want? I recommend visiting this country at least once in your life. The Ottoman Empire doesn’t disappoint.

Maiden’s Tower – Sunset From Istanbul Asia.

Malaysia – Singapore on a Budget!

Expecto Petron(us) :D. Petronas Tower, Kuala Lumpur.

Okay, the title is not a fair assessment of this beautiful country. If you are going to Malaysia from Singapore, you will be able to stretch your wallet a little more. Furthermore, Malaysia offers a lot more to do and see compared to the smaller City/State of Singapore; and this is by no means disrespect to Singapore, who boasts a lot to do in that small country.

Kuala Lumpur

OMG Selfie! – Kuala Lumpur

After taking a bus from Singapore to Kuala Lumpur, I settled in a nice hostel to catch some Zs. The next day, I went on a walking tour of the city. KL is a great city to walk, but their transportation is one of the best in the world and cheap. Transportation is well-connected through the city, and they are planning to expand it further. If you are lazy to walk around KL, jump on their various trains or buses and you will get to your destination pretty quickly.

One Of The Art Work In KL – Kuala Lumpur

I had pinpointed certain points to cover before I began my journey. From Kuala Lumpur city gallery to the National Mosque. But one of the key things I want to do was… EAT! And eat I did. With good, cheap meals from $1-$3, there was no shortage of food in the city. Later that evening, I played some Congkak, a traditional Malaysian game and I let the local win ;). The game also introduced me to other travelers and I ended up competing in an all you can drink in the one-hour special; national pride was on the line, and I am happy to say that Canada beat the likes of UK and US 🙂

The next couple of days, recovering from the nice hangover, I explored the big buildings, had some cheap meals, had a nice chat with a fellow commonwealth traveler and went to Batu Caves before I got on a night train to get to Georgetown, Penang.

KL Tower

KL On A Budget

Batu Caves

Okay, so as a budget traveler, I limit spending money and limit to visual tourism, unless of course if the excursions are free. Here is a list of things to do in KL that wouldn’t cost you a dime!

  • Petronas Twin Tower – The obvious one, the most significant building in Malaysia. The building is a thing of beauty and if you go in the evening, you can also see a water and light show. Cost-free to look from the outside 🙂
  • Menara Kuala Lumpur or KL Tower – Another significant building in KL and a pretty one to look at. It resembles the CN tower in Toronto, but with a Malaysian touch (I don’t know what that means). The tower is hard to miss no matter where you are in KL.
  • Batu Caves – I highly recommend taking the train to Gombak to get a glimpse of this colorful temple. With the rainbow stairs, a giant statue (Rama I think) and all the magnificent mini temples and sculptures inside the caves, this place is gorgeous. I did pay 7 Ringgits to go to the Ravana cave as well, where you can see beautiful images and statues depicting Ramayana (Hindu Holy Book).
  • National Mosque – Although I didn’t go inside, the structure is a beautiful monument to look at from the outside. If you want to go inside the mosque, I recommend looking at the prayer schedule and heading there outside of the time.
  • Masjid Jamek – A small cute mosque, another one I missed going inside due to prayer time, but still the charms are displayed from the outside.
  • Kuala Lumpur City Gallery – One of the free galleries to visit, I highly recommend visiting it as you will get a good glimpse of the entire city with 3D artworks and a light show giving you the highlight of the city and what the future holds for KL
  • China Town – I feel like a trip is not complete if you don’t visit a “China town” in any city that has one. And like any other China town, the KL version didn’t disappoint either. With delicious and cheap meals and cheap souvenirs, you can get whatever you want here.
  • Gardens – By the National Mosque, there are many gardens and parks where you can enjoy some nature. A botanical garden, butterfly park, bird park and many more. However, I didn’t go inside any of them because of the price tag attached next to them. I know I promised free excursions but I believe this could be of interest to nature lover with a thicker wallet.
Masjid Jamek

I did see a lot more while I walked around this beautiful city, but these are what I thought were must sees/dos (from budget-friendly standpoint).

Georgetown, Penang – City of (not so hidden) art.

Lets Go For A Ride – Artwork, Georgetown, Penang.

While I was in KL, a lot of other travelers talked about Georgetown, a must visit city in Malaysia. Naturally, I took an overnight train to Georgetown, where I slept in the station for like 3 hours since the train arrived at 3 am and the ferry didn’t run until 6 am. But once I got to the city, oh God wow! Cheap food, a lot of artwork, multiple beaches and a mountain to hike.

What to do in Georgetown, Penang:

Views From Penang Hill
  • Street Art – Walk around this amazing city and you will find street art at every corner. Honestly, I would say this is the most important (and fun) thing to do in Georgetown. But good luck finding it all. I was able to discover a lot of them, both the well-known and the unknown ones. I eventually gave up as there was no end to it
  • Penang Hill – Lies! It’s a fricking mountain! Okay, maybe not that extreme but the elevation was pretty intense and I swear it took these two ladies and I forever to get to the top. But at the top, you will be welcomed with restaurants and a view that is worth the climb. If you don’t want to test your fitness, you can opt-In to take the cable car.
  • Cheap Noodles – 2 Ringgit NOODLES y’all! Literally, my diet consisted of noodles because of 1, I love noodles and 2, because they were 2 Ringgits!

As always there are more things to see and do, but these are what I considered were budget friendly highlights of the city.

Wanna Swing?

Malaysian people are also amazingly friendly! Always smile on their face and was happy to help you. I was also lucky to talk to some locals as well, who were much more eager to indulge in conversion even with the language barriers.

Despite some issues and controversies (I mean which country doesn’t have one?), I recommend visiting this beautiful country at least once. I am planning to go back next year to explore a couple more cities in Malaysia, especially Borneo!

3D Model of KL.

Singapore – Get Rich Or Die Eating!

Poor Man’s View Of The Infamous Hotel – Marina Bay Sands Hotel, Singapore.

Anything and everything I am about to say is not going to be surprising to anyone. Anyone, whether you have visited the city-country or not, you know it is expensive. Basically, everything you saw on “Crazy Rich Asians,” is true about this country.

As said earlier, Singapore is an expensive country – A rich men/women’s playground. If you have the money, there is so much to do, shop and eat. But the funny thing is, even if you don’t, you can still enjoy the country.

My Journey

All Of The Lights – China Town, Singapore

As most of my readers know, I am a poor backpacker with a rich personality :D. Nonetheless, my amazing charms weren’t good enough to escape from the curse of opening up my wallet and swiping my credit card(s). But hear me out, I literally spent all my money on food. Hostels are pretty cheap (if you stay a little away from the city), but the food is absolutely cheap if you don’t mind skipping out on the fancy restaurants. One of the key things or attraction that Singapore is known for, other than their infamous hotel, are the hawker stalls. At the hawker stalls, you can get food pretty cheap and it will fill you up. For example, you can get a pretty decent meal for around $5 (CAD and SGD are on par). With food starting from $1, you really can’t go wrong with it.

Chinatown

Buddha Tooth Relic Temple – Chinatown, Singapore

The Singaporean China town is pretty well known, well for the usuals – cheap food and cheap souvenirs. This is also one of the key neighborhood with some infamous hawkers with our 200 stalls. In my opinion, nothing exciting to see here if you have been to most of SE Asia, but it is still a cool walk with so much amazing food.

Little India

Sri Veeramakaliamman Temple – Little India, Singapore

On the other side is Little India. Again similar vibe to China town but the Indian version. The stalls here have mostly Indian/Pakistani food and they are quite cheap and delicious. Similar to China town, attraction wise, it is pretty limited especially if you have been to the temples and mosques in other parts of Asia. 

Where should you be?


It’ a lion, it’s a fish, its FION? LISH? – Merlion, Singapore

In all fairness, Singapore was pretty reasonable if you want to stay within the budget. As mentioned earlier, you just have to avoid the expensive parts

  • Marina Bay Sands – This is the iconic hotel with the absolutely amazing infinity pool. Being a broke individual, I didn’t go inside but rather just enjoyed its beauty from outside. Talking to different people, I have heard that you will need to stay at the hotel to enjoy the infinity pool. However, another traveler told me that you just have to purchase a drink and you can head up there. Heads up! The cheapest drink is $30!
  • Garden By The Bay – Situated right next to the Hotel, this is another attraction worth checking out. The Garden itself is free, at least to explore most of it. However, to get into special spots/attractions of the Garden, you have to pay. There is also a light show every evening, unfortunately, I slept through it and missed it.
  • Merlion – I mean how often do you get to see a lion in a fish’s body (or a fish with a lion’s head?). Nonetheless, the half lion, half fish statue was a sight to see. However, when I was there, the fountain wasn’t working and they were renovating the stature. Heads up! SO MANY TOURISTS! Good luck getting that perfect selfie!
  • Singapore Botanic Gardens – I truly enjoyed walking in this FREE garden! Honestly, the garden being free was definitely a steal as it was a beautiful piece of greenery to enjoy in a city of beautiful skyscrapers.
  • Orchard Road – For all the shopping enthusiasts, head over to Orchard road! This is where you go if your bank account can handle it. From Gucci to Prada and everything in-between, you can find along this road. There are also multiple malls around here, with stores fit for the middle-class budgets as well.
  • Clarke Quay – Head over there for all your drinking and party needs. Filled with amazing (mostly expensive) restaurants, head to Clarke Quay during happy hour to make the best of your budget. Clarke Quay also boasts one of the top clubs in the world.
Gardens By The Bay

Final Verdict

Cool Sculpture In Singapore Botanical Garden.

It is a cool country to visit and obviously much better if you have a heavy purse. Nonetheless, head over to Singapore to enjoy the little things and to EAT. You don’t have to spend more than 3 days to fully explore the small country. There are a lot of things to do here, but a lot of them comes with a price tag. The trains and buses in Singapore are absolutely amazing and is well connected. Little expensive but better than the taxi.

One thing I didn’t like about the country was that I thought the people were mostly rude. I might have just been unlucky as I constantly ran into people that were rude to me. Except for my sister in law, she was just sassy lol.

Infinity Poor Where Ya At? – Marina Bay Sands Hotel

Australia (Part 1) – Is it really expensive?

Is it really expensive? – Photo by rawpixel.com from Pexels

The answer to that question is a flat YES! Okay end of blog – BYE

In all seriousness, yes visiting Australia is an expensive feat and you can easily see the money slip through your wallets, simply because there is so much to see, do and eat. In regards to if Australia is [more] expensive – I don’t think so to be honest, but hear me out.

Minimum Wage

More Money? Better Freedom! – Rottnest Island

While I was planning to visit Australia, one of the key terms I kept hearing was “expensive;” everyone I talked to said it is an expensive country to visit. But after visiting the country I thought everything was fairly priced. You have to understand, the prices were created with the good ol’ Aussies in mind, and in that regards the prices were fair. This is one of the most well-payed countries in the world, with the minimum wage starting at around $20/hour; the prices make sense. I thought $15/hour in Alberta, Canada was awesome, but the entire country just beat Canada (one of the better-paying countries) in the minimum wage. So naturally, the cost of living is going to be expensive. Even then, comparing it to Canada, for the most part, it was similar or maybe a dollar or two more.

For example, a meal in a middle-class restaurant will cost you between $14 to $20, depending on what you get. You go to similar restaurants in Canada, it is about the same as well but add in the tax and tips, it is sometimes more than what you will end up paying in Australia. Of course, it is different from cities to cities and states/provinces to states/provinces. But having visited most of the major cities in Canada and Australia, and having lived in Toronto for a year, I can say that the prices are similar in Australia.

Comparison – Sydney, Toronto & Melbourne

Sydney Opera House

To put things into perspective, I used the website www.numbeo.com to compare prices between Sydney and Toronto, two of the most expensive cities in the world. After the comparison, the results were that Sydney was slightly more expensive than Toronto! However, the minimum wage in Toronto is $14/hour and minimum wage in Sydney is $20 per hour, and the Australian dollar is only 5 cents weaker compared to the Canadian dollar. If I was comparing Melbourne instead of Sydney, it is much cheaper than Toronto, and Melbourne charts top 5 cities for quality of life every year, and it is one of the expensive cities in Australia.

Talking to some friends in Australia, I realized that during my time being employed, I was getting paid far less compared to the Aussies for a similar role. Even as a senior analyst at a marketing firm in Edmonton, I was making less or was on par compared to some of the ‘low paying’ jobs in Australia.

Parting Thoughts

Main Beach, Byron Bay

Although I hope, as a nation Canada increases its minimum wage and follow its cousin, Canada is one of the best places to live in the world. The comparison between the two countries was simply because of my residence in Canada and due to having lived in one of the most expensive cities (Toronto) in the country and the world. The whole point of this article is to simply say that Australia is not as expensive as people make it out to be. It is on par with visiting any developed countries. Hostels, food, and adventures all have similar price tags.

EXCEPT for McDonald’s! McDonald’s is expensive in Australia, and I can’t wrap my head around it! 😀

Curious Kanga! – Perth, Australia

Empower U – Curiosity Led Me Here!

Forever Starts Today – Photo by Oleksandr Pidvalnyi from Pexels

Empower U is a personality development and life coaching program, put on by Brent Williams and his team from Tomorrow’s Youth primarily in Sydney, Australia. The program is designed for young people ideally between the age of 15 – 25, however, there is no set restriction (or else, I wouldn’t have been able to attend).

The Back Story:

Somersby Falls, NSW – My Friend & I – Photo By April Bright

I first heard about this program from a fellow traveler and one of my friend from Oktoberfest. Being a participant herself and one of the primary volunteers for the program, she was raving about the program; which naturally instilled curiosity in me. Having had planned to visit Australia, I tried to get in as a volunteer for the camp (Empower U x 10), but being not experienced and having limited knowledge of the program, Brent invited me to try one of the event first before I committed.

I arrived to my friend’s house in Melbourne on January 26 (Happy Australia Day), and being a super energetic and excited person, she couldn’t wait to reveal my welcome gift. She had planned an epic road trip for my time in Australia and signed me up for the ‘Empower U’ program in February; she used her credits to get me to come to the event!

Empower U:

Photo by rawpixel.com from Pexels

Although I was curious about the program, I was skeptical about the event as well. Being freshly 26 (January babies are the best), I thought to myself, how much more can I learn from a program designed for individuals younger than I. But being an open-minded individual, and out of love for my friend and her effort, I decided to give it a chance. I was thinking about skipping parts of the event, especially after she told me how long the event goes – The program lasts the whole weekend starting from 8am – 9:30pm; ain’t nobody got time for that!

Day 1

Road Trip! – Photo by Kaique Rocha from Pexels

After driving for 7 hours from a Suburb in Victoria, we finally arrived at the location a little late to the event.

Brent, the founder and speaker, had high energy and was convincing. But there were 3 reasons it was a rough start:

1, During our drive to the event, my friend mentioned that I was the oldest participant for the Sydney program.

2, As Brent kicked off the event, he mentioned that this program is designed more so for young people from the age of 15 – 25, and I just turned 26….

3, Literally all the participants were babies, okay, teens and young adults.

Apart from my slight ego, and seeing a mix of overly excited kids (revisits) and the gloomy “why am I here” kids, I started planning my escape plans. Exit over there, breaks, best excuses etc.

*Cue Mission Impossible Theme Music – Time To Escape! – Photo by Alexander Isreb from Pexels

Anyway, by the end of the night, Brent was able to get more of the participants ready for the weekend and excited for what is to come. As for me, I decided to stay the course because, well, curiosity; and also not to be rude and disrespectful to my friend and Brent – Canadians are not rude people :D.

Day 2 & 3

Growth – New Day, New Me! – Photo by Rakicevic Nenad from Pexels

By no means, should I be condensing what happened during those days under one heading. But due to the design of the event, and the integrity of not giving away too much, I will try to keep it as short and exciting as possible.

Brent used his experience, knowledge, and stories to bring life to the event. He covered topics such as emotional intelligence, money and finance, breaking through barriers, goal setting, communication skills, and family and relationships. With a lot of dancing, team building games and exercises, the room was filled with energy for the entire duration of the event. I truly appreciated the humility of Brent, to see how a successful individual is willingly sharing his secrets and recipes of success. Add in his energy, style of presentation, and the design of the program, no one could have been bored. He also made the event slightly more competitive by separating us into teams and giving out Brent bucks for the team that participated the most – GO CHICKENS!

Squad Goals – Photo by Engin Akyurt from Pexels

Towards the end of day 3, one could see the difference in the room. The super energetic individuals maintained their energy and passion. But the skeptical, gloomy individuals finally showed some life. Wonderful to see how these youngsters truly absorbed the program and went through a complete 360 change. Barely anyone failed to participate and I could sense the boost in confidence in many kids.

The message Brent professed, the lessons he taught, and the experience he shared acted as stepping stones for the participants to gain the confidence.

Leap Of Faith – New You! Photo by erdinç ersoy from Pexels

Personal Reflection:

Personal Reflection

As the oldest participant, an international and an individual with some life experience, I approached this event with curiosity and skepticism. Not to say I didn’t gain anything from the event, but it was more so of a reflective journey for me rather than a transformational one compared to lot of the participants. During certain key processes, while these young ones transformed, I reflected. I reflected on what I should have done, could have done, who I should have been, relationships, family and friends. It is not late for me, but since I had already made peace with my past mistakes and regrets, the reflection helped find an ultimate closure and set myself up for future goals and success. I did wish I was part of this program at a younger age, so I could have shared similar experience with the other participants.

This program also helped me truly appreciate and be grateful for what I have. Sounds cheesy, but after hearing the stories and experiences of the other participants and what they have gone through at a young age, I have been lucky. Canadian born in UAE, the opportunities, the education and the supportive family and friends, the amazing people I have met, I couldn’t possibly be any ungrateful. I have always been blessed to have been surrounded by the best people, even with the minor setbacks and regrets (I ‘m to blame).

This program also enabled me to meet some awesome individuals and forge friendships with them.

Canada = All Smiles 🙂 Photo by Andre Furtado from Pexels

The Future Is Bright

Future Is Bright – Photo by Lukas from Pexels

As mentioned earlier, the program was more of a reflective journey for me. However, it was an honour, and a humbling experience, to see the journey of the other participants and see their transformation. I am truly happy for each one and hope for the best for you all. The future is bright – Australia is in great hands!

I truly hope this event gains more international exposure, and Brent continues his work with young individuals from other parts of the world. To learn more about the program, click here: https://tomorrowsyouth.com.au/

Keep Smiling and Pushing Forward! 🙂

**I haven’t added any pictures from the event, because it is a tech-free environment and all the pictures captured by the event photographers were strictly for the event. I also can’t use those images as there were young participants under the age of 18.

Bali (Part 2) – Island of The Gods, Nay, Tourists.

Footprints – Sunset – Canggu

Okay, little harsh but that’s the feeling I got from visiting Bali. Does it mean that Bali doesn’t deserve a visit? Absolutely not! Personally, I prefer cities and countries with a good balance of tourists and locals. With Bali, I felt like the province is overrun with tourists with barely any locals in sight. From restaurants to night clubs, seems like a foreigner owns everything.

The Journey….

From Snow Storms To Tropical Green Fields – Edmonton to Bali

After leaving Edmonton, Canada on December 29, 2018, I met up with my friend on December 31, 2018, in Taipei – yes, we skipped an entire day. After the quick hugs and catch up, we went to our terminal excitedly awaiting our boarding call. We boarded the hello kitty flight (I am not kidding) and flew to Denpasar.

Around 5:30pm local time, we arrived at the Denpasar Airport, excited to get to our hostel to change and head out for the New Year’s Eve festivities. After a hard fought battle with many taxi drivers, we found one who was willing to take us to our hostel. Google said 20 minutes (without traffic), but it only took us 2 hours to get to our hostel, super quick! Finally, we arrived, got changed, went out to get some food (lets not talk about that nightmare). So with no food in our system, we rang in the New Years at Finn’s Night Club with Martin Solveig and couple of shots of tequila (seriously, who is counting).

New Year, New Me!

Tegenungan Waterfall

Woke up bright and early on January 1, 2019, at roughly 10:30 am (come on, we did good). Head to a vegan café – got to get that summer bod – and ordered some yummy goodness. Walked around a bit, explored the city, the beach and head back to the hostel for day 2 of the music festival – KHALID!!!!

Day 3 – two inexperienced people rent a scooter and goes on a road trip.

Goa Gajah – Ubud, Bali

Yes, you read that right, we decided to go on a Road trip from Canggu to Ubud because according to Maps.me it was 20 minutes, it wasn’t….

Ended up in Ubud after an hour on the road, roamed around the city, visited a beautiful waterfall, and headed to back to our hostel; WE DIDN’T DIE! We weaved through the crazy Ubud traffic, narrow roads and survived.

Cities

Canggu:

Finns Beach Club – Canggu

I spend a majority of the time here, riding scooters, volunteering, eating some Mie Goreng and staying away from the sun (My Canadian body is used to -25). Canggu is a beautiful city. Overrun by tourists, but still little bit of everything for everyone. Beaches, night clubs, restaurants, this place was a great adventure. I recommend hitting up Finn’s Beach Club for really nice vibe – but watch out for the prices. The Tanah lot temple is 20 minutes away on a scooter (if you are brave), from Canggu city center.

Ubud:

Sacred Monkey Temple – Ubud, Bali

Because heading to Ubud once wasn’t enough, my friend and I went there the second time but this time with two big backpacks because the first time wasn’t risky enough. Ubud was a lot calmer than Canggu, with lot of monkeys. The sacred monkey forest is a must if you visit Ubud, but be careful as although we got out with no scratches, I have heard horror stories from people regarding monkey bites. Goa Gajah temple was alright (one of the recommended tourist attraction) but definitely visit the Tegenungan Waterfall, and the Tegallalang Rice Terrace. Visit the rice terrace at sunrise, you won’t be disappointed.


Tegallalang Rice Terrace – Ubud

Nusa Islands

Kelingking Secret Point

Favourite part about my trip to Bali, was heading to these islands. They were beautiful and the people were amazing. Read more about the island here: https://soulfullofdetours.com/nusa-islands-lembongan-ceningan-penida/

Final thoughts:

Personally, I think the true feelings for Bali depends on each individual. I wasn’t a fan because of the huge sea of tourist and expensive prices (for a 3rd world country). Read more about the Bali expenses and tips here:
https://soulfullofdetours.com/bali-part-1-expensesandtips/

I think being one of the biggest tourist destination, it is worth a visit to check out the hype – the province does have its charms. But talking to some locals, they all recommended heading further east to the other provinces, where the lands are still more natural with less tourist exposure.

Sunset – Canggu, Bali

Happy traveling! Cheers 🙂

Bali (Part 1) – Is It Really Cheap?

Reflection Of Money Leaving My Wallet – Accommodation, Food & Transportation

Bali being a province of one of the 3rd world countries, I expected it to be inexpensive. Bali was more expensive than I thought, especially comparing it to other 3rd world countries I have visited. In all fairness, food and accommodation were decently priced depending upon where you chose to stay and eat. However, transportation is the real culprit in this country. Hell, Australia is much cheaper (not really), but I felt that way.

Accommodations:

Cool Ganesh Statue In Lembongan Hostel

I would say the cheapest expense, for value, in Bali is probably the accommodations. With hostels starting from $6 CAD/ night, you can’t go wrong. If you have a little bigger budget, you can get a private Vila starting from $60 CAD/ night in Bali.

Food:

Mangoes & Dragon Fruit – Mhmmm

Probably the most inconsistent expense depending upon where you choose to eat. Food is one of those factors, no matter where you go, the pricing is going to be inconsistent. Average food cost in middle to medium-high restaurants are between $5 – $10 Canadian depending upon what you get; also add in the 10% tax and 5% service charge (could be higher at different places). These restaurants are likely owned by foreigners.

Your best bet for cheap food is to go to a Warung – local, tax-free, Indonesian family run restaurants. The food here cost between $1.50 to $5 depending upon where you go and what you eat. But watch out for some medium to high end restaurants advertising their restaurants as “Warung” too but the prices will be more expensive along with taxes compared to the actual Warungs!

A+ Pop Culture Reference – Didn’t Actually Eat Here.

Transportation:

Not Bali, But A True Reflection Of The Traffic – Photo From Pexels Stock Images, Shot By Suzukii Xingfu
 

Definitely the most expensive part of Bali! All the drivers are greedy here. Is it fair for me to judge them trying to out smart a foreigner, absolutely not, but as a backpacker on a budget, I am going to be that person. From the Denpasar airport to Canggu, based on the Go-Jek and Grab prices, it should have been around 75K IDR ($7.50), however, my friend and I had to spent around 250K IDR ($25) to get to our hostel in Canggu, and this was after negotiations.

Oh and public transportation is nonexistent in Bali!

Speaking of which, Go-Jek and Grab will be your friend in Bali; they are equal to Uber in Bali. Taxis can be tricky and expensive. Go-Jek is an Indonesian company, but Grab is an international company. But… WATCH OUT! Some drivers on these apps will contact you separately on WhatsApp or the ride share app’s messaging tool to ask for more money. For example, for one incident, the Go-Jek app quoted me 50K IDR ($5) for a trip, but the driver contacted me separately asking for 400K IDR ($40).

Boat/ferry trips are also expensive. To go to the islands, expect to spend about $50 CAD round trip for a 30-minute ferry ride. A 15-minute boat ride is around $6 CAD.

Tips To Survive Bali:

Coconut Water Anyone?
  • Best way to get around Bali is via a scooter. Scooter rentals are anywhere between $5-$7 per day and about $2 for a full tank of gas (unless you get lucky). Mind you, this can be dangerous as you weave through the hectic Bali traffic and narrow roads if you have no experience.
  • For Go-Jek, sign up with an Indonesian sim card ($7) and instead of paying cash, add some money to the app. Get a local or tourist with Indonesian bank account to add money to the account. I noticed that when you are paying through the app with an Indonesian cell number, the drivers automatically assume you are a local and don’t pester you for more money. If the drivers message you in Balinese, use Google translate and reply; trust me it helps with the expensive trips. Also, by using the app to pay, you save money as they discount the trips.
  • Bring currency from home and exchange it in Bali. US and Australian dollars are the most preferred currency followed by Pounds and Euros, but there are exchange centers that take all currencies as well. It is much cheaper than pulling out money from the ATM and paying the fees. The exchange rates are pretty good too except in the islands.
  • Pay hostels and restaurant with cash because they charge you extra transaction fees if you were to use your credit cards.
  • Bali Belly! Luckily I didn’t get one even after eating most of my meals from Warungs. Just be careful of the restaurants you decide to eat at. And DO NOT drink tap water.
  • Get travel insurance (I should be listening to this advice as well). Although I have been lucky enough to leave Bali without any issues, I have heard horror stories from fellow travelers. Consultation fee in one of the Balinese clinics is about $35.

Personally, I thought Bali is cheap if you are going down for a quick vacation. But if you are planning to head to Bali as a backpacker, it might not be the best place to start your backpacking trip. *Learn from my experience* 😀

Now Have Some Tea & Book Your Flights To Bali!